Conflicted

I just found out that the agency we originally signed up with  (1 1/2 years ago) has opened an Ethiopia program.  I am very conflicted about this.   The reason we left EAC after only a month is because of some red flags.  

We had signed up for Russia.  We were told upfront that it would cost $40,000.  We let them know our financial situation and were told it would not be an issue.  Once we submitted our application and financial statements we were contacted by another rep of the company.  We were told we needed $100,000 in net worth.  We do not have it.  I wish we did, but we don't.  I had told them this upfront, because I know China requires it.   I was heartbroken.  We had finally started on our path to a family and now this. 

The next day I was contacted by our EAC rep.  I was asked if our parents would be helping us with the fees.  I said "a little".  Then I was told we could MAKE UP some of our net worth to get us to what we needed.   UUUHHHMMM we weren't a little short-we didn't have it.  My thought was what if we wait 2 years for a referral, go to court, and are asked for proof of our financial situation.  Then what?  Were we going to say, Well I kinda made it up? 

 They also suggested, "your parents are paying for the whole thing right"? Sure let me just ask our parents for $40,000.  I'm sure that won't be an issue at all.